Sorry things are not getting better. I agree that you need to adapt to the new situation and not expect any change back to the old way. If there is any chance that he will change his mind, it will be when he believes you no longer want him. As long as he feels confident that you are there for him, he is empowered to continue to pull away. When he believes that you are moving on, dating someone else, building a new life, then he MIGHT change his mind. Til then, what's his motivation?