It is never crazy to want to resolve your marriage!! That is why we are all here. The biggest thing I have learned over the last eight months is that you need to take care of you. If you don't, it is hard to take care of anything else. It is easier said than done, and you really have to get the mindset to take care of yourself. Once you learn to do that, everything else starts to fall into place. It makes it easier to handle. There are no guarantees, but have faith, and keep up what you are doing because that seems to be working. And keep posting...the people on this site are great and offer great advice.
The biggest thing, though, is listen to your heart and have patience. These things do not change overnight. Remember it took years to get to this place, and the changes cannot be seen unless you have time to work on them. Once you start to change, and your H can see the changes, he may change as well. But the biggest difference is that you become happier with yourself, and in the long run, that is the biggest plus.
(((Arianne))) there are plenty of hugs and plenty of support here!
Lola
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
