you guys and you're caring is bringing me to tears. d5 is here watching a video with our neighbor so I have a few minutes.
she's been gone 10 days (as you know h didn't bring her back and took her to jersey with his parents who all hate me), anyway, when h dropped her off, he came in the house, that was fine, but what is really bothering me is that she was clinging to him and not wanting to hug me (she's always been a daddy's girl, but the minute he's gone,she sticks to me like glue). she didn't want him to go. h looks at me and in that f'ing smug face goes, "she's upset because she thinks she's staying here". like he's already been granted custody!!!!!!! I did exactly what you guys said and didn't respond. He said it right in front of her. I feel like she is being brainwashed.
How in the world can I win custody if she keeeps asking for daddy, daddy, daddy??? this is heartbreaking.
Ok, off I go. she's warming up to me, wants to sit on my lap now. but off course h can't see this and I'm sure he'll report that she "didn't want to be here".