I mean if you put down that your marriage could be preserved and/or no to question 2, what would happen to the mediation process? Does it still continue?
Exactly.
I guess I meant, can I answer them honestly and still be granted a divorce? I have NO problem asking my mediator this question in front of H. Its no secret I think we can survive this. I was just pondering it as I was filling out the paperwork.
H and I chatted a bit last night and he mentioned again that I want this divorce now, and that I'll have my new house now, and will be happy. I told him, "I might not have control over the D, but I can either be a wreck or be fine afterwards. I will be fine for myself and for the girls".
