Hmm, what kind of alcohol would I be? Maybe I would be a simple cold beer. Refreshing and goes with everything. Maybe a margarita? Sweet and salty and goes with salsa and chips..lol
Journaling:
Another fantastic weekend with the girls. Snuck out Friday night and saw Sex. It was great!!! Yesterday was birthday parties and hours at the pool. Very nice. My girls spent the night at my neighbors house. I was down there til they went to bed (talking with my friend) but then came home. Its odd to have them gone. They are a part of me.
H and I ended up on the patio having a few drinks yesterday evening. It was nice, but boy, oh boy, we have lost the knack for small talk. There just isn't much to say at this point.
Having trouble answering 2 questions on our mediation paperwork. Probably standard questions, but wow.
1. Is there any likelihood that your marriage can be preserved?
1. Is there any likelihood that your marriage can be preserved?
2. Is your marriage irretrievably broken?
Do I have to answer these?
I would think so, and can you answer them honestly? I mean if you put down that your marriage could be preserved and/or no to question 2, what would happen to the mediation process? Does it still continue? Karen
I mean if you put down that your marriage could be preserved and/or no to question 2, what would happen to the mediation process? Does it still continue?
Exactly.
I guess I meant, can I answer them honestly and still be granted a divorce? I have NO problem asking my mediator this question in front of H. Its no secret I think we can survive this. I was just pondering it as I was filling out the paperwork.
H and I chatted a bit last night and he mentioned again that I want this divorce now, and that I'll have my new house now, and will be happy. I told him, "I might not have control over the D, but I can either be a wreck or be fine afterwards. I will be fine for myself and for the girls".
Karen
our futures look bright