Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
So sorry to hear of your loss. The companionship and love of a pet is worth so much, and especially must be felt even more so when going through the heartache of R. struggles here.
LL came over last night and actually spoke with my father who was here with me...
He had been drinking and basically acting like an ass...trying to antagonize me...it worked intially then I ignored him. He said that the dog loved me best and that I was the better person and that I deserved someone better than him...he said he was flawed and that his father 'calls' to him every night. His father died of cirrhosis in January 2006 and now apparently LL needs to live his life exactly like his father.
OMG, he is so screwed up.
I thought he was coming over to reminisce about our beloved dog. Instead he made it about himself...I shoulda known.
My dog did not deserve to be ignored by his daddy. My dog deserved so much more. I am glad that LL left us...I am glad that I could concentrate all my time with my bubbies.
Our pets are so loyal to us...I wish the same could be said about our messed up MLCers...
Sorry, I got off on a tangent there....
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Thanks, Purr/Peace/Trusting, and everyone who has sent me personal e-mails to give me their condolences...I am so touched by all the outpouring of love...
I wish you all could have known my bubby...he was so wonderful...and sweet. He had the sweetest brown eyes...I swear they could look right into my soul...he was so laid back.
I will miss that fur face more than anyone will ever know. My heart is broken...Poor Petunia is so sad...she walks around the house looking lost and waiting for her brother to return.
We will both be okay...life has a funny way of making us resilient...and also helping us to hold on those we love through cherished memories...
Love to all...
Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Vali, Im sooooo sorry you lost Torito. (((((hugs)))))) Its awful when they go. They are part of our soul.
Hes meeting Badger up at Rainbow bridge!. They can romp and play today. Bloat?? Was it some form of pancreatic disease? Thats what Badgers was.
There is nothing you can do when it happens. Badgers pancreatic enzymes were killing his pancreas and other tissue around it.
LL...well he couldnt handle it, so he had to make it about himself to hide the pain.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Vali- I am soooo sorry about your bubby. I know your dogs mean so much to you. I am also sorry that your H isn't able to be supportive...grrr! Hold on to your memories and be thankful for the time you had with him.
