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mcojh #1454300 05/22/08 02:22 PM
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I read this with tears in my eyes.. Just like I cried when you told us that CW filed..

But, I love that you wrote this:

Originally Posted By: mcojh
I now know that God has a plan for me and that plan will bring me to do great things....I just have to trust him and let him take me to greatness.


You have already touched and helped so many of us here.. You are a wonderful man, John... You really are...

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Originally Posted By: Heartbroken
HB (not so broken anymore);)


I just realized it was you \:\)

HI HB!!!

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MC,

Sad to hear the news. I'll call.

Miss you buddy.

--Theoden




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God bless you, MC.

Take care of yourself. Please keep us informed of how you're doing.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
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Just an update. CW got my signed paperwork with a couple minor changes. The one main one was that child support starts on 6-1-08. She wanted it to start on 5-1-08. My attorney told me that her attorney told hi that she was willing to throw the whole deal out over the $400.

I called her and after much discussion, we worked out that I would give her $200 for May and call it a day. She is allegedly into her attorney for $7K already. My bill is under $3K. I had a pretty good time pointing out that throwing the deal out will be a lose lose situation as her attorney's fees will chew up much more than the $400.....she pointed out that she was willing to risk it.

She really earned the Crazy in her nickname today.......

Smiling and waving........


Me: 44
S: 17 and 7
Final-6-13-08
I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
mcojh #1462129 05/29/08 09:49 PM
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I know this wasn't the outcome you wanted mc but you are going to have a great future....your attitude guarantees that.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
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OK, So the papers are with the judge, just waiting to be signed and filed. I can't wait. I am so ready.

Anywho, a friends mom died this week and the visitation/funeral is about 2 hours from where we live. CW sent me an e-mail telling me I could ride with her, her sister and her mom to the visitation. I declined as I felt that committing a felony during the drive served no purpose. The boys and I are going to the funeral this morning.

CW is coming over to pick up a few of her personal items that are still here, (pictures, some stored clothes etc). While putting some stuff together for her, I came across the crystal ring holder her mom brought her from Sweden, with my ring on it. I set it aside with her stuff. It will be interesting to see if she takes the ring.

I almost went to the store yesterday and bought a box of condoms and hide them in plain sight. I was going to open the box and throw a couple away....too see if I could screw with her mind a little.

Smiling and waving.....


Me: 44
S: 17 and 7
Final-6-13-08
I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
mcojh #1473032 06/08/08 01:14 PM
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So, did she take the ring and find the used condoms?

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I chickened out on the condoms. Not leaving them, buying them \:\) .

She did take the ring. I hope she takes the hint and gives me hers back. I could pawn it and buy something.

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Me: 44
S: 17 and 7
Final-6-13-08
I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
mcojh #1473048 06/08/08 01:46 PM
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I'm thinking you're not gonna see her ring so you better find another way to finance the box of condoms.

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