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Re: If you / Don't care for it MichelleLT #1472674 06/07/08 11:26 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,254 Northern CA C cw68 Member
cw68 Member C Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,254 Northern CA	Originally Posted By: MichelleLT Oh, best yet, his plans for later got canceled, so he just IMd me asking if I want to meet tonight. No, here's where you say you were going to go to Java City to see some music and study. If he'd like to join you for a coffee, come on by for a bit, but that you can't make it late because you need to study. Then, if you do this and if he comes, don't let it turn into anything late. Stick to your word. This isn't about DBing or game playing or anything. Take a little control. If he balks, then so be it. Make some plans and stick to them, you'll be happier tonight if you do. Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09 My life is good.

Re: If you / Don't care for it cw68 #1472732 06/08/08 12:53 AM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT OP Member
OP MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	Yes, very true. I'll be the one there with the federal income tax book! $\:D$ Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: If you / Don't care for it MichelleLT #1472789 06/08/08 02:09 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL Member
LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Originally Posted By: MichelleLT I don't know what I can possibly do that would make a good impression on him at this point other than showing up naked with signed D papers in one hand and beer in the other hand! Lordie Michelle!! At least you still have your humor!! LMAO!!! Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: If you / Don't care for it MichelleLT #1472807 06/08/08 02:23 AM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ V Virtually_Handsome Member
Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	Originally Posted By: MichelleLT I don't know what I can possibly do that would make a good impression on him at this point other than showing up naked with signed D papers in one hand and beer in the other hand! If you need any practice with that maneuver... I haven't been sailing in years, but I love the feel and sounds of a sailboat going into the wind. So why am I in the middle of the desert? (((((Michelle)))))

Re: If you / Don't care for it Virtually_Handsome #1472869 06/08/08 03:15 AM
Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA M mishka422 Member
mishka422 Member M Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 9,762 GA	Good question Jeff. You need to get thee to the ocean. T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!

Re: If you / Don't care for it mishka422 #1472902 06/08/08 03:53 AM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	Originally Posted By: mishka422 Good question Jeff. You need to get thee to the ocean. That's part of my MLC plan!

Re: If you / Don't care for it Virtually_Handsome #1472939 06/08/08 04:36 AM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT OP Member
OP MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	If I can't laugh about it, I'm just gonna cry more. Got some studying done at the coffee shop. I feel a bit more focused. And the live music was great. Sent H an IM before I left telling him where I'd be. He never replied, nor did he call, nor did he show up. So, I guess he never got it or he changed his mind about wanting to see me tonight. Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: If you / Don't care for it MichelleLT #1472960 06/08/08 05:56 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,302 Northern CA (Sacramento) N NikB Member
NikB Member N Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,302 Northern CA (Sacramento)	((((Michelle)))) Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread

Re: If you / Don't care for it NikB #1472986 06/08/08 10:22 AM
Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,337 London UK O One Day Member
One Day Member O Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,337 London UK	(((((Michelle))))) I hope today turns out a bit better than yesterday. L. xx

Re: If you / Don't care for it One Day #1473006 06/08/08 11:50 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 5,270 A AliSuddenly Member
AliSuddenly Member A Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 5,270	Hi Michelle, Thinking of you. I'm sorry he didnt reply to your IM, I guess he may have been out still? Well done for being brave and offering to meet up with him though. I guess you cant tonight now, as you have that exam tommorow? Thats too bad that you have to study with all this going on (and a little selfish of him to land it on you before you finish, or did he not realise do you think?). I hope you are doing ok, hugs to you, Al xxx Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread

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