Ouch.

I didn't include the whole conversation we had about the pool but she had stated before I said what I wrote that she didn't think it was the right thing to do right now for a couple reasons and then she asked me and I replied how I did.

I understand what you're saying about examining everything, but it's who I AM. I come her to vent those frustrations so I don't explode.

I do go out without her. Sometimes I just go and other times I ask if she wants to join me and if she says no, I go anyway.

Food for thought.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.