I didn't include the whole conversation we had about the pool but she had stated before I said what I wrote that she didn't think it was the right thing to do right now for a couple reasons and then she asked me and I replied how I did.
I understand what you're saying about examining everything, but it's who I AM. I come her to vent those frustrations so I don't explode.
I do go out without her. Sometimes I just go and other times I ask if she wants to join me and if she says no, I go anyway.
Food for thought.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.