Originally Posted By: debbieb07
But I guess I need to be friends with myself too no matter what H does or doesn't do. Have any of you ever dealt with that kind of thing?


yes, absolutely. I suffered with really low self esteem. I used to feel like I "needed" a man in my life to prove my worth. I realised I had to like myself first, and I did a LOT of work on me and I continue to do so. I have just discovered EFT, and each time I want to say somethign negative about myself I say ""Even though I ________, I deeply and completely accept myself"

I would recommend a book by Wayne Dyer called "Your Erroneous Zones" too. it was recommended to me and was a great help.

Good luck and by the way, I LOVE that poem!! \:\)


Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.