Just dropping in and was thrilled to read the update. It sounds like as you continue the balancing piece, some things are solidifying...slowly, but that's the best way for it to happen. I also appreciate your description of the quiet confident male which is a nice alternative for me to read about as a guy (vs. the traditional Alpha Male concepts, some of which are difficult for me to fully grow into).
Great to hear the news of your update, keep checking in when you have a chance.