"This is all good Brian...Was there anyway you could have set a date with D17 and locked something in..It's too bad you missed her today..Contacting you like that she may have something on her mind..You should really attempt to get back with the D17 real soon."
Not to worry I am on top of it, she said she would have to check her schedule. So I guess I have to make an 'appointment' with her LOL, it's all good she said she would let me know.
"Keep a close eye on that younger D if she is withdrawing. IC may be what she needs. Will she talk to you about it at all??"
That is my #1 concern and am keeping a 'hawks eye' on the sitch. I always reinforce that she can talk to me or W about anything that is on her mind and not to worry if she thinks it will 'hurt' our feelings cause her feelings are what matter the most at this point. Thanks for the concern bro it helps curb the pain I have for her...
"Is there a Grandparent she may open up to??"
She dearly loves my MIL and talks to her quite abit about things and MIL does a good job in answering things for her and informs us when something seems askew.