You and the other ladies are absolutely correct. There will be limits as to what I will and won't allow her to do and I can do it w/out getting nasty and ugly w/ her.
I also decided to use some of your advice when she posed her 1st question about our R and we've been discussing things ever since. It is interesting and who knows where it will end up. I think you've been right however as she's needed affirmation from me and the chance to speak and know that she's being heard and listened to.
Again, I could be setting myself up here, but I'm not doing anything to give away the farm, but I am answering her questions and I've taken a few chances w/ my responses tonight.