You were not harsh, and I'd never look at your words in that way.
I do think she's crazy as well. Her actions are nuts and she is irrational. I also agree that I'm going to need to clearly set boundaries (as bizarre suggested) as to what is and is not acceptable in our conversations.
Tonight's text chat w/ her is weird and who knows where it will lead. I sure don't, but I need to find out. I'll be working on transcribing it out after I finish responding to each of your individual comments.