"Last night was a bad night. Wound up taking my son to the ER because he got so sick. So I sent my wife a text and called her to let her know."
I am sorry to hear this I hope he is doing better how frightful. You did the right thing when it comes to kids better to do more than not enough good call dad. You did well by letting W know this is all the more you could have done.
"She got all sorts of pissed off because she thought I was trying to start a fight. She then proceeded to tell me that I should have let her take him home and yadda yadda yadda...like I cant take care of my son!!" "I think she got mad because I ruined her plans!"
IMO don't take this personal, it sounds more like a mother that was concerned for her child and maybe felt helpless and the anger was not directed at you but at the situation of not being there. You tried everything you could think of, nothing was working so you just did the next logical thing, if I were in your position I would have done the exact same thing.
You did nothing wrong you cared for your son that's what is important and again I hope the little guy is doing better.
