Today was a good day for me, had a birthday party to go to BF turned 40 his mom & dad thru him a surprise party. Saw alot of old friends hadn't seen in years. You might remember he is going thru a divorce that is costing him BIG BUCKS! Well his sister is going thru a divorce also and then there is me, what a hand to draw to. His sister has a WAH, and BF has been in a verbally abusive marriage so he is the one divorcing her after takin it for 15 yrs.
He and I have known each other for about that time frame, raced together, drank together, been there for each other, and people have often mistaken us for brothers we are so much alike. His wife used to say that 'we' should be married cause we were inseperable. Needless to say he means the world to me and I am happy for him to finally find some peace.
Lots of good PMA there, there was one point were I had bent over to get a pop out of the cooler and turned around and these women were staring at me and I'm like WTF...so I turned it into a joke and said what looking behind me do I have a hole or something, they in turn say oh no nothing like that but if you want to get another pop out go ahead we would love to watch again I felt this instant heat come over my face and Im like wow maybe I might still have alittle something left in me...nice to know I can still turn a few heads it was a good ego boost
No contact with W at all today, D17 had text me and wanted to go to lunch would have loved to but had the party to go to, I felt terrible cause this was really the first time she has reached out to me since they moved out, I asked if I could have a rain check and she said sure it's cool, still felt like an ARS though!
Talked to D11 on the phone tonight, her and W went and hit a bucket of balls today and had a good time. Last summer got D11 golf lessons from the Pro at one of the courses she has been on the LPGA, D11 was in total awe of her.
Brian
This is all good Brian...Was there anyway you could have set a date with D17 and locked something in..It's too bad you missed her today..Contacting you like that she may have something on her mind..You should really attempt to get back with the D17 real soon. Keep those connections. Keep a close eye on that younger D if she is withdrawing. IC may be what she needs. Will she talk to you about it at all?? Is there a Grandparent she may open up to??
