Well, that sounds like fun! Now you need to stop talking to him. He knows where you stand, and how you feel. It's up to him now. Now it's a matter of how long you wait, and you are in control of that.

Originally Posted By: mishka422

This conversation went on for about 30 minutes in the front seat of his car with OW's sunglasses hanging over my head! AARRGGGHH!!!

So, why didn't you sit on them?

Originally Posted By: mishka422
H told me that if he left her to come home and it didn't work out where would he go then? He can't afford a place on his own and OW told him that if he left her again she wouldn't take him back. He asked me why I would. I'm your wife and the mother of your child. We have 18 years invested and I would hate to see all of that go to waste without a real fight.

I don't think he understands this right now.

Originally Posted By: mishka422
I'm not going to contact him at all. I'll talk to him if he contacts me but no other way.

And if he contacts you, let him do the talking!

(((((Mishka)))))