F
Going to lunch is a good thing if you can stay together with no expectations
be upbeat, listen like to a friend and validate then go on your way
These WAS/mlcers seem to like to keep connected to us
not sure why -they ease slowly into their new life
My H alwatys stayed connected to us
I used that time to change so he could see it first hand
Its 16 months later..he is still gone but visits frequently
says he wants D but hasnt filed
and still doesnt want to return
it is a long haul
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow