F Going to lunch is a good thing if you can stay together with no expectations be upbeat, listen like to a friend and validate then go on your way These WAS/mlcers seem to like to keep connected to us not sure why -they ease slowly into their new life My H alwatys stayed connected to us I used that time to change so he could see it first hand Its 16 months later..he is still gone but visits frequently says he wants D but hasnt filed and still doesnt want to return it is a long haul peace
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