pHi
I wouldnt contact him again
he will contact you when he is ready
like was already said
get busy with making a new life for you
be positive for now with him
be supportive and validate
mostly be there for you
get a support group a counselor
books help
it is a long haul
MLC takes a few years some get lucky and H return 1-2 years
no guarantees
we change for us
good luck
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow