Depressed H walked out- similar to MLC?

[pisces9]

WOW- Thanks OD!
add 6 months- yay.
i had 6 months in my mind and i think 1 year is more like it.

I was very sad earlier bc my H never called back after i left a message for him when he called me the other day...my mind starts playing tricks on me like: did my message get to him? is he hurt? etc.
this is clearly where i still need to let go and detach. Funny how i thought i had already done so much work- each new level is so hard...

i would say this has been another VERY hard part- i have been doing well- and then BAM...i just got hit with this wave of sadness today.

thank goodnes for this site...you guys are my saviors :-)

any other advice? do i contact him again at all until he contacts me? and then when he does do i wait?

this is so unfamliar to me- i was soooooo involved with doing everything for our marriage- i think i broke the see saw so its his turn...YUCK PUKE ARGH!

thanks so much for replying- i will check out alisuddenlyalone- i think i read a lot of her stuff already but i will check again...

any words of wisdom or encouragement or ideas tokeep doing what im doing or change things would really help!

THANK YOU!