I think right now I'd take it no matter what the reason is. It's been 10 months without ML and probably 8 months since she's hugged me or even allowed me to hold her hand. And I miss it.

I think any intimacy with my WW right now would be good for both of us. I think it would put her back in the frame of mind of thinking that way with me. It's been so long I think she's convinced herself she can't feel that way with me and it'd be nice for her to see that she can be affectionate with me.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.