Is physical contact really that important to you. My W ML with with me today because she was readying a book in bed and got turned on by a passage. Don't get me wrong it was great. First time she would allow me to give foreplay in over a year. Her rational is that it is easier now because I know she wants a D. We had MC two days ago. She told me it was over, defended the OM, and said all contact (kisses, hugs) were easier because she is no longer strugling with her feelings with me, she is emotionally disconected. I thanked her for the intimacy, but told her I knew it didn't mean we were getting back together. She smiled and gave me a kiss. Good kiss or kiss of death???
