2 days before our 8th anniversary I was told we were through, shocked would be a understatement ripped apart devastated and so on . I was told that there is no hope no help that we could get she was done and moving to be close to her mum 1000 miles away all very reasoned all civil but done, I got a apointment at a counciler she went told him what she said to me she was there to give me closure but not to come back... now she is packing I am at home and trying to get a morgage not a date has been said and she clls and asks if I need any thing from shopping just like normal but she is going it seems .... help advise please, I am trying to find a 180 that I can use
