Hmmm, Dilemma?

[EnergyAZ]

You can send an olive branch by just keeping things light: the need to swap vehicles soon and need to pick up some items from the house.

However you wish to do that, voicemail, email, whatever YOU are most comfortable with. It doesnt need to be anything longer than to get the above points accross.

Hello, As you know, we need to swap vehicles soon and while at it, I need x x x x from the house. Call me back, thanks bye.


His reply will give you an idea of your possible reception.

But if you have not had any dialog with him in weeks, I would do my best to avoid any heavy/drama talk. Maybe a little lite chit-chat, friendly body language. We men expect drama from ladies. So just keep things simple, light and friendly.

Like you said to me in another thread...baby steps!

But honestly hon, if this guy isnt willing to address some of his issues, he isnt worth your time. Not that I am suggesting you enquire about that when you speak with him, that proabably backfires. Let him bring it up, and if he never does..well thats your clue.