Dontcha find it just a little odd this woman has some requests for you to work on?
I mean, if she is going to move forward in life without you, why should she care if you repeat yourself?
All I suggest is to try to go a little lighter, no guilt trips about how she has hurt you, or the whole swimming thing, or asking to go to church with her.
Otherwise just keep doing what you have been doing because it certainly doesnt seem to be hurting things.
Dont take anything for granted, dont start assuming all is well. But I do feel things are on the right track. Just take it easy, no hurries here
Me: 37 Wife: 40 Son: 7yo Son: 18 mo Bomb: 12/31/07 Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now