Hope4us struggle, part 4

[Hope4us]

Well, we went looking for pools, found one we liked and WW asked me what I thought. I said to her it looked good, but what about us? She said "what do you mean"? I said "I want to know where we are going. I don't want a roommate". She said "I don't know what's going to happen". So I said "I don't think I want to go into debt if she couldn't at least tell me we're headed in the right direction". So the pool idea kind of ended right there.

So I immediately changed the subject and started talking about our upcoming vacations etc and she seemed fine. When we got home I asked if she wanted to go watch the race with me and she said no she was going to stay home so I said "ok, I'll be home later" and left.

I just got home a few minutes ago and she's still ok, but a little quiet. No more R talks for a while, but now WW knows I don't want to be just a roommate and the implied I won't wait for ever.

I think she's making progress, but isn't ready yet to make a commitment. I'm a little disappointed, but not to terribly discouraged. Just need to give her some more time (and a couple of fun vacations) and she'll come around, if not before.