The problem is I still don't know what he wants!!! I don't know if he wants the summary dissolution D, the legal S, or what!?!
Stop trying to figure it out. You're just driving yourself up the wall.
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At one point he says its a letter, at another point he says its forms, at one point he mentions S, at another point he says he needs this to be finished so he can have closure. Half of what he said contradicts the other half.
He said he wanted 'emotional' closure. Perhaps he just wants to KNOW that he's S'ed, and that's all.
If you can go along with the S, good. I know it's not what you really want, but perhaps in your particular sitch, giving your H this legal S wouldn't be a bad idea, as long as you aren't still S'ed 3 years down the line, kwim?
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Oh, best yet, his plans for later got canceled, so he just IMd me asking if I want to meet tonight.
No I don't want to meet tonight. I've spent the day laying on the couch watching TV. I haven't cleaned, I haven't showered, and I'd probably throw something at you!
Yikes! Breathe deep, Michelle. Breathe DEEP!
If you're not mentally/physically/emotionally "all there", don't meet with him tonight. It would probably be best to wait another day or two, if possible, and after you've had a look at the letter/forms.
(((Michelle)))
Last edited by GoingForward; 06/07/0810:56 PM.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
Yikes! Breathe deep, Michelle. Breathe DEEP!
