I highly recommend that you consider going to a Retrouvaille weekend either before he moves in or soon after. They teach you how to break down the barriers to effetive communication, and how to talk so the other will really listen. The difference it makes in a couple is tremendous. We went 1 1/2 years ago, and we have been better ever since. Even friends remark about how happy we seem together. No one would have ever called us the model couple before Retrouvaille. But a friend told me that we were the model couple just this week. Weekends are listed on the website, http://www.helpourmarriage.org.
