sara -- thank you for the reply. what do you mean by not taking hostages? I just want to do the best job I can with the advocate. again, h is using the mental health card. I have obtained letters from my therapist, dr. and psychiatrist on my behalf. explaining that my anxiety issue manifests physically (stomach problems) and that I am being treated.

the most damaging thing h has on me is the journal he stole and photocopied. the journal was an exercise is "getting everything out on paper" to get it "out of your body", so to speak. I have the dr. I was working with this who gave me this exercise writing a letter explaining the therapeutic journal and that these quotes h is using are taken out of context.