You have the alarm for a reason. I wouldn't make things easy. Be like Ron Popeil and, "Set it, and forget it." Then I'd just act real blonde if he asks you anything about it..."Ohhhh, I am SO sorry! I have been so busy, and I just forgot. Boy, I SURE hope it didn't inconvenience you!"

And then I'd give him the new code.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!