You know what, SD, I could have done that. And a few weeks ago, I did something like that just to annoy him. But anymore, I am so sick of it. Sick of the drama and the games. If he wants to be here and study, then oh well. He won't be here much longer.

Here is my latest problem. We have a security system. I have changed the code and the password and he doesn't know what it is. This was one of the ways I was keeping him out of the house. Well he found the remote for the alarm system and with the remote you do not have to put in any numbers.

Well....I found his remote on the bed and took it. Here is the note I find at the house today:

Lost house alarm remote so don't set alarm (if changed please). Don't know new number--let me know # please.

Here is what could happen: I set the alarm tonight before I leave to sleep at my parents. H comes home and can't turn off the alarm. The alarm will go off. The security company will come over the speaker and ask for the password. H doesn't know the new password, so he will give the wrong password and the police will come to see what is wrong.


I could give H the new code (don't want to do this because he is the reason I changed it in the first place).

I could just leave the alarm off and then neither one of us has to worry about it.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08