If you / Don't care for it

[MichelleLT]

We've done dinner, a few movies, listened to music, gone out to a couple bars.

I have been trying to get him to go whitewater rafting with me for years. And he has been saying he'll take me sailing for years. Neither of us own bikes, but I'd be up for hiking. However, I'm not invited when he goes. And as of last night, I'm not allowed to invite him to do anything that could possibly be construed as a date. The ML has been VERY VERY VERY infrequent.

I don't know what I can possibly do that would make a good impression on him at this point other than showing up naked with signed D papers in one hand and beer in the other hand!