In fact, when it's time to meet up with your H to talk things over, go someplace you normally wouldn't. Go to the bowling alley and bowl a game or two, play a round of mini-golf, go to the shooting range (you and H are into appreciating guns, right?), or check out an outdoor concert before having the talk.

I don't know. Just some ideas to think about.

(((Michelle)))

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell