For the Guy with Kids and a WW4

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WW called pretty late last night. I had fallen asleep. They did too. They were watching a movie at MIL's house and everyone fell asleep. I asked her if they were just going to spend the night there and she said yeah. I told her it was best. A long drive. She say they never made it to wallymart.

Goodnight.

This morning, I was up later than normal. Not a bad night of sleep. I get up and around. WW calls me but it is actually D6. She is saying she just got out of the shower and is wearing grandma's robe. I am joking with her. I love her so much. "I love you to, daddy." She says D11 is still asleep and snoring. We laugh. She says, "Do you want to talk to mommy?" I say ok.

She tells me good morning. Good morning. She still sounds sleepy. She tell me that she went out to the car this morning and got the window to go up. I tell her to put some tape over the switch. She says she will. I ask what her plans are. She still wants to go to the store and just do some things.

I forgot that last night, before she said goodbye, she told me, "Well, I just thought I would call and give you a good laugh."

I tell her ok, and to enjoy the day. She tells me to check the account because the card would not work last night. I tell her ok.

Booboos on the bank account. Mortgage payment came out a couple days earlier than expected. Spent morning trying to fix and talking to bank and mortgage company. I go to bank and fix the problems. Ok.

Head to my parents house to visit. They are mixed about seeing me. Mad at me for not coming around. My mother is so hurt about my sitch that she can't stand it. I feel like I do not have any support for what I am trying to do here. They don't understand. Everytime I go over, it is, "So, does she still want to leave? Is she still the same way?"

Ultimatly leads to talking about WW and our M. Mother gets upset. Can't understand. Doesn't think that she can forgive her. I tell her she can't think that way, because what if we get back together. My mother is stubborn.

Now ya'll know why I am who I am. She is the ultimate worry wort. I get it from her. I get my patience and understanding from dad.

I apologize to mom for not coming around and start to explain why. We talk a bit. They hurt for me. I know. Just support me. I will not stay away. I just don't want to discuss my sitch everytime I come over.

I call S14's dad on the way home. I gave me a check to pay for a Six Flags ticket last week and it bounced. He admitted it and told me he will take care of it today or tomorrow. I tell him I'll call him.

I call WW. She is just leaving MIL's house to go to store. I tell her account is ok. She says she is not going to use that account anyway. Just wanted me to fix it. Heading to wallymart. I tell her about her ex and she gets upset. Did you tell him to pay us and the fee? Yes. He will. She tells me to call him back and ask him if he wants to pick up S14 from a friends house. Get the money from him then. I say ok.

I pick up S myself and head home. I start to clean the house. Take puppies out to pen and clean the mess in our bathroom and laundry room.

The horror.

Washing clothes. Putting away clothes. Make my bed. Vaccuming. I hear S14 call WW. Talking about something she was supposed to buy him. Swimming shorts, I think. I can hear her describing them. I hear her ask what we are doing. He says, "Just relaxing".

I hear, "Hmmm".

I can hear her now. Just being lazy, I bet.

I hear son ask her where she is. She hates that question. I hear, "We are out and about, ok?" He says "Nk". She probably thinks I told our son to call her, too.

I have not heard from WW since my call to her earlier. I got a lot done in the house.

I do want her to call me. Just like we used to. Last time I talked to her was about 12:30. I don't expect her to.

Think I'll throw some ribs on the 'que today.