No. I won't make a choice like that. What I'm trying to do is get into marriage counseling where we can both face our demons. I have a laudry list of things I'd like to see from him as well. I just need a platform where I can gently tell him my expectations at the right time. I just think he won't do it until I take the first step. I wouldn't accept him back in the house until I see those things either. This IS a two-way street. The verbal abuse is at the top of my list. I've already told him that that comes to an end. I don't deserve it, and I won't listen to it. That hasn't changed. I HAVE to put my foot down there for myself and my kids.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
