I hurt for you too. It is one thing when you have to deal with it on your own level, but another when you see someone else going through the same thing. You want to say all the right things to make the other person feel better.
If your gut is not saying anything right now, don't do anything. You will know when the time is right to act. I have tried going against that feeling, and it has gotten me nowhere fast. Listen to your inner voice, and if it is not speaking, then wait until it does.
(((Michelle)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..