Hi Pisces,

AliSuddenlyAlone has a WAS who is depressed who left a while ago (also no OW). It might be worth reading her threads to get a feel for the actions she took. She's been making some great progress in her sitch recently. Incidentally, she's a Pisces too.

I think you're on the right path with LRT, and being nice, friendly and supportive when he contacts you. The depressed walkaway is a slightly different breed to the others in that they need support (not in a pursuing way, though). Get ready, though, to get settled in for the long haul- take whatever timescale you have in mind for this and add 6 months- progress is much slower than any of us would like it to be!

You're in a great place to get support. I read your posts on Newcomers, BTW, and think that communicating by text/e-mail is fine for now (but great news that H called you too!)

OD.


Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart.
And you'll never walk alone.