I can understand you not being happy about the email from him It's not enjoyable to be confronted with a list of things about yourself, that is "bad".
The reason why it is a GOOD thing... is that the first step in marriage counselling, is identifying why each party is unhappy. [You first have to identify WHAT is wrong, before you can work on making it RIGHT, yes?] That part can take weeks, if not months. But you have his side all done already! You're way ahead of the game!
His current attitude about your marriage right now, is negative. But the fact that you have a detailed list from him of why he is unhappy, is fantastic !!
Many people on here, would like to make their separated spouse happy, "if only they knew how".
You know how, now. So in that respect, you are doing so much better than other folks here! Take comfort in that.
'nuther post coming, with "solutions based" suggestions....
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
