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Re: The 80/20 Rule... Valentine #1470135 06/05/08 06:34 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman Member
Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	I remember going on a family holiday, right after he got his tatoo (hint, hint) and he said to me then...."You know, if we ever get divorced, I would still like to go on family holidays together.." I wondered a LONG time, WHY he said that to me then, as nothing was really wrong at the time...(to me anyway..) I do agree with Jack, that maybe at the time I would not have been sensitive enough to listen and learn. The bomb caused the change and the WILL to do so ! Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: The 80/20 Rule... Cinderellaman #1470253 06/05/08 07:51 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	OMG, I got the "if we ever get divorced, we could still be friends". WTF? No, asswipe, i don't wanna be your "friend"...I thought I wanted to be his wife. But personally, I am not sure I wanna be that either... Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: The 80/20 Rule... Valentine #1470257 06/05/08 07:53 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Vali, I feel just the same way. Have a lovely week-end, despite it. (((HUGS))) PS: have you noticed that the EDIT button is working again - great! Last edited by Truelove; 06/05/08 07:54 PM.

Re: The 80/20 Rule... Truelove #1470691 06/06/08 01:12 AM
Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 3,925 P peacetoday Member
peacetoday Member P Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 3,925	V I like what you said earlier about if H doesnt return, your next companion will reap the benefits of your growth,,i agree..so true ..most healthy men would be grateful to get a loving validaing, caring wife..except our H of course! why are our H so stupid, surely they can see the changes, yet they continue on this road..no R could be better than if your original spouse has really changed and obviously has stood by you thru thick and thin they must get glimpses of what their life will look like if they stay with the OW..she isnt healthy or anywhere close to where we are peace married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow

Re: The 80/20 Rule... peacetoday #1470877 06/06/08 05:26 AM
Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 4,626 L Lissie Member
Lissie Member L Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 4,626	Our Beautiful Valentine, lost her dog Torito tonight. Please keep her in your prayers. Thank you Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God

Re: The 80/20 Rule... Lissie #1470921 06/06/08 07:13 AM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman Member
Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Oh Vali, I'm so very sorry....I had to put our doggie to sleep a little while back and I know the heartache of losing a pet...My love and thoughts are with you...God Bless Torito, may he rest in peace. Mucho amor xxx Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: The 80/20 Rule... Valentine #1470926 06/06/08 07:57 AM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Oh Vali, I am so sorry about Torito. My thoughts are with you. (((HUGS)))

Re: The 80/20 Rule... Truelove #1471600 06/06/08 09:07 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	(((((((((huge hugs)))))))))) I am sorry Vali..... There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Samson 'el Torito'..... brandnewday #1472490 06/07/08 08:21 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Many thanks to you all... I lost my baby boy suddenly on Thursday night due to stomach bloating...I have never heard of it however it is apparently not uncommon... It was fairly fast and he passed when I had gone to the petstore to buy him a new kennel pad... Petunia and I are devastated. He was getting better from his spinal injury but we can never know when our time is up and God calls us home. I am thankful for the time I had with my precious bubby. I thank God for everyday i had with him. Samson el torito de Sanchez May 20, 2000 - June 5, 2008 Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: Samson 'el Torito'..... Valentine #1472510 06/07/08 08:45 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas Y yellowrose Member
yellowrose Member Y Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas	Vali I am so sorry about your loss. My doggie died of the same thing a year ago in April. They are wonderful family members and love us unconditionally. My heart goes out to you! Y

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