Dom, I certainly don't see that letter as a "wonderful thing" AT ALL. He's explaining himself OUT of our marriage, and explaining why HE'S DONE.
1. I can acknowledge that everything he wrote is true...my insticts want to explain a lot of it, so I don't come across as a complete bitch as the letter makes me sound.
2. I can tell him that with no excuses, but I don't think he wants to hear anything from me right now.
I'm siding with Sara in the going dark stage. I wrote a pretty good email, apoligizing for my words, and wanting to work with a marriage counselor, he replied, and now...it might be best to go dark.
Sara, I've looked into Retrouvaille. I would love to go, however, I think h wouldn't go for it. Simply because it's "catholic" based. I KNOW...we're Christians, and catholics are Christians, H just thinks they have some screwed up views. Also, I invited him to a Love & Respect seminar last Feb. (which was great) and he said "no way". He didn't want to work on things until he sees my changes. Now he doesn't want anything.
This is killing me. I have a song on my ipod from Casting Crowns called "Praise you in this Storm" and I've listened to it a thousand times this morning.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
