I don't think you did much harm. Although one reason I did the letter is so much H wouldn't see me crying and wouldn't be pressured to reply just then.
I think the first half was fine. And even the questions about OW. I think you really made him question some things.
(((mishka)))
Just wait and see. You can't take it back, and I'm not even sure you should - other than possibly pressuring him about why he hasn't filed yet.
Take a bath with candles and bath oil and a book. Drink some wine. Or get out and do something. Anything to make yourself feel better.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2