Depressed H walked out- similar to MLC?

[pisces9]

Welcome to the roller coaster!
I know my H is Depressed and in early MLC. He wasn't really ever that Angry with me. He has been sad (crying randomly) for months prior to this, he said nothing to do w us or me...i had tried everything...give him space, ask if he needed anything, he reached out once for therapy but never followed through, then the BOMB after his actions were odd for a few weeks (and i called him on some BS actions in Vegas- i did this lovingly but i put my foot down. he replied with I think we need to be apart and D....)

Now we are separated- he moved out a month ago. Im using LRT...he contacts me every few days via text, some email ( i love having a marriage by text! ugh) and he just called me the other night for the 1st time instead of text ( i called back later that night and he hasnt replied) ...No OW...just very sad and BUSY BUSY BEE behavior from him (trying to stuff his emotions like always).

This is where i get confused because a lot of ties people say he will be angry with you and cant see the sweetness and independence if you cling...well he only said a few mean things in the first day or two...but then that ceased and he talked about how hard this was for HIM and how sad he was and how many good memories we still have. He asked why i was being so nice or stop making me laugh. I acknowledged a few of his positive statements, but he was so hellbent on moving out that he did it.

i even said that to him- "I just dont want you to be so hell bent on this that you follow through just because you said you would"...."he said I dont care what anyone thinks and i wouldn't do that"...so that is a good sign.

since he moved out no R talks, NO ILY's, no pursuing from me.

am i on the right path? I know it is still LRT but i am just frustrated these past few days.

VENT VENT VENT- AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH- much better!