W and I had sex for the 1st time in a LOOOOOOONG time
We have been sleeping in different bedrooms most of the past 6 months.
Anyway...last sunday I called her out on her online EA & wrote to the guy telling him to back off.
Monday she was as distant as ever, determined to get divorced and obviously irratated with me for being in 'denial' about the state of our relationship. (never in denial, I know whats up, I am just doing my best to prevent it ending)
Tuesday she was very sweet and we had a nice evening together talking about all sorts of things.
Wednesday she backslid and apologized if anything she said Tuesday night 'led me on' to thinking there might be a chance. There is no chance.
Thursday, she is sweet again. Maybe not quite as friendly as Tuesday but doesnt mention the D word
Friday night: candles, lingerie, massage oil & GOOD sex!!!
No protection, no mention if it. The only times we have had sex the past 6 months she insisted on protection and that I dont get the wrong idea - that it was just sex. This time though, not a mention of it and when climax was nearing, no apparent worries whatsoever - go for it, just like the old days on BC. She is no longer on BC though
Afterwards, I feel her pulling away. She seems to have something on her mind and wants to sleep in a different bedroom.
I of course let her and try not to let on to my disappointment. She has a training class the next day and wants to ensure proper rest while I can toss/turn/snore so I accept her excuse and go sleep in a different room
Ummm....as wonderful the sex part was the whole sleeping in different rooms was unexpected.
I try not to get too up/down but this was especially odd. Nothing even close to this over the past 6 mos.
Me: 37 Wife: 40 Son: 7yo Son: 18 mo Bomb: 12/31/07 Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now
