Hi every one, I am sorry if this is not the right place to post a new (yet familiar) story line. my wife left 7 months ago and has not (seemingly) looked back. we have 3 children, 15,20 and 23 (all at home with me)...and she was a good mother, a lot of investment in their (and my) up-bringing, but went from descent (yet some what impatient) mother and wife to a women who has been so very mean (so many nasty stories) a (denied) EA and now living with OM. I still love her, we were together 27 years and were (what I thought) a very nice couple, other man seems nasty, has a terrible track history but lots of money. no real question here accept, what do I reveal here? I am comfortable with letting it all out but I don't see every one else letting us in on the nasties, so I am thinking I am posting in the wrong place...I would like thoughts on forgiving, accepting and whether it is truley over or in fact is there any hope (in that I feel she has given up so much and I feel I am a very good and moral guy ...plus very much more).