If you / Don't care for it

[AliSuddenly]

Michelle,

I am so sorry. Thats really awful that he said all those things on IM. Gosh, he sounds so angry, I really do feel for you right now. Are you ok? Is there someone that can come and be there with you to talk it through? Is the letter he is referring to you at your Dads some separation papers then, not a letter?

It sounds like (as he said, this isnt to do with an OW) that he has made this move recently and he sounds angry, do you think its because you sent the article to her? Or perhaps not, depends when he sent the paperwork.

I'm really thinking of you, I'm so sorry that he is directing his anger and aggression at you (as he sounds like he is) you havent done anything wrong as such, and you dont deserve this.

I think its interesting the way he says "and within two months I'll be deployed again" I'm sensing some anxiety in him and wanting to get things "tied up" before he goes away, its such a strange thing to say. Why does it matter to the army if hes separated M or D?? Its just paperwork?

I do think its very sad and disrespectful of him to have this important conversation on IM (when he knows you are not online?) its like he's taking all the control and its NOT a conversation.

Hugs Michelle x