If you / Don't care for it

[MichelleLT]

I can only assume that he wrote the letter after our date last Saturday. That maybe this was what he wanted to talk to me about, but chickened out. Perhaps the catalyst for this was me contacting OW. I have no way of knowing though of course.

I would definitely prefer to figure this out face to face. If he had given me an opening I was going to invite him over for dinner this weekend. Somehow I don't think he's gonna go for that now though.

He doesn't know where I live because he bailed on helping me move (his best friend and my mom and brother were my main assistance) and hasn't visited me or asked where I live since.

He obviously thinks that doing a legal S or D will somehow make him feel better. Give him closure he doesn't have now. Which I guess tells me he is still confused, lots of mixed emotions.

He is putting a deadline on himself though by wanting this all taken care of before he deploys. He is pressuring himself to decide.

And his away message is still up. He hasn't been on his computer yet this AM. Which isn't THAT surprising I guess, since he was out drinking last night and got driven home by a local cop.

He sounds like is quiting instead of fighting for your M because he can't find the answers he is looking for.

Yeah, its the same crap from last summer - I don't know how to fix it, so obviously it can't be fixed. I don't know how to show him otherwise though right now...