If you / Don't care for it

[MichelleLT]

Well, I woke up this AM to find my H had sent me this IM after I fell asleep last night...

(11:07:47 PM) H: okay fine, don't answer me. I sent you a letter to your parents place, since I don't have your address on file. If you picked it up, things ought to be obvious. If not then you should stop by your folk's place I have a half suspicion of your dad opening your mail which is a thought I dislike.
(11:09:12 PM) H: the truth is things have nothing to do with another woman.
(11:11:19 PM) H: [he volunteered to go on another deployment soon]
(11:12:56 PM) H: our dates have been fun - some of them any how but the fact remains that we have little in common except the army and sex
(11:15:47 PM) H: my point is that, I know you've made your point that you don't believe in divorce. I don't either but here we are and within two months I'll be deployed again. and at SRP I have to answer questions. and I'd like to answer that I'm separated, if you will sign the forms I sent to you. I'm so sorry things came to this. I don't know how it worked out this way
(11:21:51 PM) H: and I know you have felt bliindsided by all this and are being stubborn to feel not totally out of control. but think for a minute that while you are standing on principle that you don't believe in divorce and refusing to sign one sheet of paper that you are just complicating what is. Which is, my ability to fill out paperwork in the army truthfully for the next year and that you and I receive emotional closure on our marriage.