Aussie Girl - Trying to be patient

[AliSuddenly]

Hi Essie,

Same here, I had regular 3-4 hour stilted visits since February and it wasnt until recently (April?/May even?) that he said to me that he had enjoyed his day out with me. Up until then, I met him weekly for 3 months and he never said anything!!!

So, you are really are starting on the bottom rung here, but a night out in a club, with drinks, is huge. If I wasnt so interested in someone, or was done, or well I dont know, but in that situation in the past I have just met them for an hour for a cup of tea in the day, definetly NOT an evening thing.

You need to let your barriers down a little and be open and friendly, perhaps you are protecting yourself when he is around and he is picking up on that? You need to be an actress! Thats how I got through all those early meetings in February AND March.

Ali xxx