he's going to take my child away

[gForce]

How H is acting is awful. Nobody deserves what he is putting you through. I can only imagine your emotions. Using children as weapons is about as low as you can get. Just remember that the system favors keeping children with their mothers, and strongly favors both parents' right to have a healthy R with their children. The courts see a lot of crap pulled by a lot of vindictive people and they can see through a lot of bullsh*t people try to pull. And while there is a painful process that you have to go through, I think it would be shocking if you "lost" her. So just go through the process as calmly as you can and I bet when you come out the other side things will be much brighter than you are imagining right now.