I'm here, but I'm not going to stop you. I think communication is the most important thing in a marriage. Cut that off, and you have nothing. I know writing a letter feels like taking a risk. You open yourself up, and he could reject you. But the truth is you'd be no worse off than you are right now if he does that. And there's a chance that he would have a good reaction and things will improve. If you do nothing, nothing will change. So you aren't risking anything by doing it. The risk is in not doing it, and letting everything stay the way it is.
